The only explanation you never need for doing what you want is: “I want to.”
The only explanation you ever need for not doing what you don’t want to do is: “I don’t want to.”
The people who love you will understand.
The people who do not will not.
You do not need to convince anyone of anything. Actually, you can’t convince people who want to control you of anything.
State your preference directly and openly.
Think of this for a moment. The people who oppose your decision are only stating their opinion, their preferences. Why is their opinion about your life more important than your opinion about your own?
You wouldn’t object if others did what they wanted to do. You might not like it or agree, but you recognize other people are free to live their lives any way they like. Just like you! It’s only fair.
Memorize these two explanations: “I want to “and “ I don’t want to.”
You don’t need excuses to be your-self.
Friday, April 22, 2011
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